Its a world of difference!

I just discovered how difficult it is, just being me!Hold on... its not about all those principles and ideas that I keep talkin about.. Its about being Ms.Bhuvana Murali, the way I am..
Well, I dont seem to be able to categorize myself, fit myself anywhere at all... I seem to be such a cocktail ( that sounds fancy!) But then, why do I have to fit in somewhere? There's this constant necessity of having to identify yourself to others in order to be able to DEFINE yourself. So am I a capitalist or socialist? Do I prefer to be formal or alternative or bohemian? Do I like continental or south Indian? Am I an altruist or am I a misanthrope?The list goes on...
This obsession with being either black or white... why? Why cant there be gray? or why cant I be nothing... why cant I be something of everything, why cant I be something now and another thing later.. Ofcourse, that is how I am.. so how do I then define myself to people who dont acknowledge the existence of such differences?
I dont believe in building relationship strictly based on things common... Yeah, its fun to have someone who shares your interests and opinions but wont that make you the frog in the well? I need variety, I need flavours, I need colours......... I need a difference, for, in diversity, I grow....in diversity, I live....... in diversity, I am!